Woman dating men prison
The fact is that prison officers work very closely with these people.You see them day in and day out and you speak to them about their lives and their families. They are sometimes expert at manipulating you and often have nothing better to do than think of ways to impress and flatter you. But reading this man’s record cured me of any passing infatuation. There is an expression my American friend Giselle introduced me to called ‘yard swole’.There were male inmates that would have sex together, and there were male inmates that would have sex with male members of staff.But this was something that was generally frowned upon due to the level of machismo that is prevalent in mainstream society.As a former prison officer that has worked in both a male and female prison I have a few views on this report.Firstly, I am not sure how accurate these studies ever are.When you speak about sex in prison a few images come to mind.
The main difference when it comes to sex in a male and female prison is the level of openness.
Some inmates would get involved in sexual relationships but it was never spoken about openly.
In a male prison if someone was having sex with the ‘wing don’ it was often abusive and led to bullying from others.
And whether you are an officer or an inmate you only ever really know half the truth.
When I worked in a female prison there were often rumours about female inmates that were taken out in order to get abortions, after having had sex with male members of staff.
And as most women are the primary care givers of their children it often leads to a breakdown in the whole family.